Running the Race
I was out riding my bike this morning. The trail was particularly busy for a Saturday. After going a little ways I saw a water station. That’s when I noticed a bunch of runners with numbers on them....
View ArticleMy Advice: Twice Is Just As Nice
Nothing is more important to a blissful marriage than finding a point of agreement. Every veteran husband knows if he wants to change his wife’s mind about anything, just agree with her. It is amazing...
View ArticleSome Thoughts on Power, Prayer, and Pleasing
I’ve been reading in 2 Chronicles lately, through my daily bible reading plan. It always amazes me amidst all the wars and violence of the Old Testament there are verses tucked away that speak to me....
View ArticleWhat Kind of Farmer Are You?
I have been seeing too many couples lately, who have been married 25+ years, and who are ready to divorce. The problems have been there for a long, long time. They are reaping what they have knowing...
View ArticleGideon: Lessons in Trust from an Unlikely Hero
“God calls us for the person we will become, not necessarily the person we are right now.” — Lisa Bevere, Women of Faith speaker The Israelites had “done evil in the sight of the Lord,” and had turned...
View Article10 Seconds to Say Yes to God
I recently read a book entitled, “The 10-Second Rule: Following Jesus Made Simple” by Clare De Graaf. A great book which I highly recommend. It’s basic premise is just like the title: just do the...
View ArticleGoing For The Gold
I have been re-watching a little of the 2014 Sochi Winter Olympics. Last night the figure skating couples were on and I thought, “Isn’t marriage a bit like this?” Think about it. You are both skaters,...
View ArticleWhen to Say “I’m Sorry”
I was listening to my favorite oldie station again and the song, “Could I have this dance for the rest of my life?” by Anne Murray came on. I sang along. Right after that song came, “I’m sorry” by...
View ArticleThe Family Dinner
I’ve spoken to a number of people and I am surprised to hear, all too often, that they “don’t sit down for dinner as a family”. Why, I ask. “we’re too busy, ya know, Joey has basketball and Susie has...
View ArticleMammograms and Marriage
Now there’s a snappy title! Seriously, I thought of this while at the doctor’s office this morning. I was getting my annual mammogram. Now, say “Ouch” all together with me ladies! Yes, it hurt as...
View ArticleToo Little Too Late?
I was thinking about my previous post about perseverance in marriage. I was pondering a situation where a husband has neglected his wife, and now she is done with him. She’s endured him telling her how...
View ArticleLove Never Gives Up
I am sitting here enjoying my fresh cup of coffee and wondering about a recent conversation I had with a man who is deeply in love with his girlfriend. His depth of love is quite impressive, as is his...
View ArticleLEAN ON ME
I was listening to my favorite oldies station today and “Lean on Me” was playing. Here are some of the lyrics for those who don’t know the song (by Bill Withers, 1972): Sometimes in our lives We all...
View ArticleThe Flintstones teach BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE
I’ve been thinking a lot about the sanctity of marriage. I’ve thought about friendships with the opposite sex and how that has changed over the past decade or so. Having friends while married is a good...
View ArticleEverybody is a Rock Star
Do you remember the movie, “The Incredibles?” It’s one of my favorites. A few things stand out about that movie: #1 When the bad guy, Syndrome (Buddy Pine), says to Mr. Incredible, “If everyone is...
View ArticleWhat Kind of Farmer are You?
I have been seeing too many couples lately, who have been married 25+ years, and who are ready to divorce. The problems have been there for a long, long time. They are reaping what they have knowing...
View ArticleFallout From Divorce: The 4 Fs
No, this isn’t about final grades, although I know we’re close to the end of the school year. This blog is about the Fallout From Divorce. So, I’m going to talk about divorce in a marriage blog. Weird,...
View ArticleUpgrade Mentality
I have been thinking a lot lately about my phone. You see, I have made it last another 2 years and my current contract is up. So, I can upgrade to a new phone. Undoubtedly, a sleeker, cooler, faster,...
View ArticleNew Beginnings
Another season of school has started and I don’t know about you, but I have parent-teacher conferences this week. This event may bring joy or dread to each of us. The first quarter is over and it’s...
View ArticleLoving Your Unlovable Spouse
Now there’s a catchy title, huh? I’m sure no one has an unlovable spouse now, do they? Well, hopefully not, right? Because this is where the rubber meets the road in marriage: learning to give love,...
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